Ask XOXO
How It Works
Register your profile via the option listed under Events in the menu.
Join us at one of our carefully curated events and enjoy great venues, good food, drinks and genuine conversation.
Meet like-minded singles naturally through shared experiences and meaningful interactions.
Frequently Asked Questions
Dating & Connection Advice
Many singles are experiencing app fatigue. Endless swiping, superficial interactions and ghosting have left many people craving more authentic ways to connect.
Meeting someone in person allows you to experience chemistry, body language, humour and personality immediately — things that are difficult to judge through a screen.
Focus on shared experiences rather than finding "the one".
Attend events because they interest you. Enjoy the food, conversation and atmosphere. Genuine connections often happen when you're engaged in the experience rather than actively searching.
1. What brought you to this event?
2. Have you attended anything like this before?
3. What's been the highlight of your week so far?
4. If you could travel anywhere tomorrow, where would you go?
5. What's something you're currently excited about?
Remember that most people attending an XOXO event are arriving with the same hopes and nerves you are. You don't need to impress everyone. Focus on having one or two meaningful conversations.
The goal isn't to find your soulmate at every event. The goal is to expand your world, meet interesting people and stay open to possibilities.
Event Information
Our events are designed to feel relaxed, welcoming and pressure-free. Whether you're naturally outgoing or a little shy, you'll find opportunities to meet people at your own pace.
• Arrive on time.
• Wear something that makes you feel confident.
• Come with an open mind.
• Challenge yourself to start at least three conversations.
• Be curious rather than impressive.
• Ask questions.
• Listen actively.
• Focus on connection rather than outcomes.
• Follow up with people you enjoyed meeting.
• Attend multiple events before deciding whether the community is right for you.
• Complete your XOXO Profile if you haven't already.
Members who complete their XOXO Profile may receive:
• Early access to selected events
• Invitations to smaller group experiences
• Priority access to future curated dinners
• Updates on exclusive XOXO experiences
Your Stories
Something worth sharing?
Tell us about a connection, conversation, or memorable moment that started at an XOXO event.
